For understanding a human’s level, we should not always do the things as we consider that the more beautiful his appearance is, the more he deserves to have respect. Truly, except respectability, we can even find several more things which we gain from increasing the level, such as money and power. However, even if we decided to enhance our quality and believed that we did achieve perfectly, we might  not have reached our goal due to some lack of status, using body language, for example. To be honest, we are really so far from it. Whenever we use our body language, most of us exaggerate much. In other words, we are acting as we want to complicate the work more than the finalization in a planned way, so why we normally do that? How much can we really use body language during our life? These kinds of questions may be answered by tracking the dependence of our features, desires and targets.

        Actually, whether you are an expert or not, being able to use body language may not be an easy work as well as you think. Similarly to other people, you might think that the major trick is using hands. Well, our vision may only be shown to us to look for hand gestures, but this is wrong. First things first, you should take care of your eye contact when you decide to use your gestures. For performing to develop this, you should do some exercises by yourself or getting help from the people who know better than you. For instance, by staying and looking at the mirror, you can move your eyebrows up and down or if you can, try to draw a circle, except batting your eyes. In addition, using hand and arm gestures is quite significant if you want to gain a strong body language. Don’t close your arms into the ground during talking with a person. Otherwise, you may seem not willing to speak with him. Geometrically, I recommend you to try to stay your arms right angle first. When you always focus on this, you will notice that you use your hand and arm gestures without wanting. As a result of these two main needs, you will be able to use your body language well.

       Finally, you have to take a limitation for your distance while communicating with another person. Unless you do this, the person who you talk to might want to finish the conversation. As a matter of fact, we have already protected our distance and we are still protecting due to the coronavirus crisis. Social distance was determined as one and half meter by the government. This distance can change from country to country. However, in normal situations, we should take a distance over 40 centimeter for foreigners, but it should be under 65. Additionally, try not to forget not to change your body angle during communicating with somebody. Of course, you are free to choose your aspect of movement by talking with lots of people in the same time, but don’t do the same when you are talking one on one.

       To sum up, learning the importance of using body language is fairly necessary for all of us. From actors to doctors, every person in different domains need to consider it. Using eye contact, hands, arms, mimics and having a social distance have great roles for gaining the skills of body language to us. Consequently, we need to obey these rules if we really want to make it real.

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